But who can discern their own errors?
    Forgive my hidden faults. 
Psalm 19:12

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Many of us have had near misses in our cars because we didn’t see a blind spot in one of our mirrors. If we don’t see our blind spots, the end result can be tragic. The Psalmist today tells us that sometimes we can’t see our mistakes. Most often, it’s easier for us to see each other’s blind spots and miss our own. I want God to help me be aware of my blind spots so I don’t get into trouble when they rear their ugly heads. 

Worry is a blind spot I do recognize, and I often return to the verse: “Don’t be anxious—pray, and be thankful” (Philippians 4:6-7). God promises peace in return, and I cling to that. When it comes to reconciling with someone, this blind spot shows up as deep concern that I haven’t done everything I need to do to make amends. I can worry myself into stress over it—even when someone has told me everything is okay. A sure sign is when I am a mess inside, my blood pressure rises, and I have difficulty caring for those I love because I’m so wrapped up in myself.

This summer, a friend pointed out another blind spot: I beat myself up when things do not go right—or at least what I think “right” is. Perfectionism isn’t just exhausting—it’s sinful. The Bible is clear: no one is perfect, and we all fall short and sin (Romans 3:23). When it comes to reconciliation, I think the process toward a restored relationship is supposed to go a certain way—the “right” way. When things don’t go as I anticipate, I can get unnecessarily frustrated and angry at myself, and it can keep me from the good work that God is doing in the process.  

With His help, I’ve made progress. I regularly ask Him to examine my heart and show me the blind spot I’m missing. Often this examination leads to confession and repentance. It might also mean that I need to ask friends to forgive my behavior because my blind spots have an impact on our relationship. Besides listening to the Holy Spirit I need to trust Christian friends who know me well, who often see them before I do. 

And I’m grateful—grateful to God for visible changes. I’m growing up in Him!

Next Steps

This week, ask God about your blind spots. Listen to His voice; have a teachable heart and lean in close to our great God. The words in this great hymn say, “Prone to wander Lord I feel it, prone to leave the God I love”… listen to it for the next beautiful phrase.