My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do what I command.
John 15:12-14

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One of my favorite parts of my day is coming home. No matter where in the house my dogs are, no matter what they are doing, they will come running up to greet me when I walk through the door. They run excited circles around me—tails wagging, gently nudging me, and begging for attention before I can get my bags down. As soon as my bags are out of my hands, they go crazy knowing it’s time for belly rubs and some good pets. If I ever need a pick-me-up, I know I can seek them out to turn my frown upside-down. In turn, they know they can count on me to meet their needs as well. When it comes time for food, treats, walks, or playtime, they know I’m their person. 

The other night, our puppy had an upset stomach and wanted to go outside in the middle of the night. Oh, I was not happy. But to avoid a mess in the house, we trekked outside together, and I waited reluctantly but patiently while she did what she needed to do. It wasn’t ideal to be up in the middle of the night on a weeknight. And for our puppy, it wasn’t ideal for her to feel so sick. So, we got through it together in the middle of the dark night and by morning, she was feeling better. 

That moment reminded me of Jesus’ words in today’s passage. Laying down your life isn’t always dramatic or heroic. Sometimes it looks like setting aside comfort, sleep, or your own plans for the sake of someone else. Sometimes we have to let God interrupt our lives so we can carry His presence to others. 

I am grateful for the people who have done that for me—those who have sat with me during my own dark nights. Perhaps reluctantly, but with unwavering patience, they provided grace and mercy when I couldn’t give it to myself. They stayed with me until the morning came, and their presence gave me the strength and courage to move forward. That’s the kind of love Jesus calls us to—the kind that shows up, stays close, and walks with a friend until the light returns. 

Next Steps

Think of a person who may be going through a dark night. Pray and ask God how you can be more present for them this week. If they need a listening ear, listen with care and don’t rush to fix it—just be present. Invite them to a meal or to run an errand for them. Be the light until they can see it for themselves.