My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires.
James 1:19-20

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My hearing isn’t what it used to be. Sometimes I miss what someone said because background noise interferes. But most of the time, I mishear or misunderstand because I’m thinking about something far from the person in front of me. When I double down on my interests, my agenda, and my perspective, it’s impossible to have sensitive ears to hear the heart of what someone is saying.

Jesus regularly spoke hard truths to the hard of hearing. After sharing something challenging to understand or receive, He’d end with: “Whoever has ears, let them hear” (Matt. 11:15; Mark 4:9, 23). Many within earshot resisted; some grew in receptivity to God’s truth. This is the heart behind James 1:19-20, as it sets up the significance of being open to God’s Word in James 1:22-25. Those who follow Jesus honor Him by living out what the Bible teaches. But if we can’t listen closely, seek to understand, and respond appropriately with people, how can we ever do it with God?

When I read “be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry,” I’m reminded how important it is for me to continually adjust the sensitivity of my hearing. I need to do this daily with God and the people He places in my path. It’s the best way to listen to what’s spoken and intended without jumping to conclusions or reacting angrily. If you have ears to hear, I’m sure you’re with me on this.

Today, let’s make a deal to become better friends with God and others by having sensitive ears. Instead of speaking first, wait. Instead of responding with a statement, ask a question. Instead of fighting back, lovingly respond with an open mind and tender heart. God’s truth will surface and endure. We only need sensitive ears to hear what He and the people around us are saying.

Next Steps

Who is someone you’ve stopped listening to recently? Did you turn your attention to your own thoughts or shut them down in a conversation? Consider apologizing to this person today. Let them know you want to be a better listener and friend moving forward.